I'll be honest. I'm a fan. I'm a member. One of about 4, well 3 (one recently told me to do something rather disgusting, so I've removed myself from there) now... forums I visit regularly.
Sure, there may be some "bashing" going on, I see it more as people allowed to speak freely. You have an opinion, express it. Some may be good, some bad, some you agree with, some you don't. Big deal. If everyone agreed on everything, life would be boring.
I've seen a lot of truths posted that wouldn't be able to see the light of day elsewhere.
Just pull up your big girl panties and go with the flow. It's the internet, enjoy it. Don't take everyone and everything so seriously.